我的父母（弗兰克和埃斯特尔）于1956年11月24日结婚，相伴至2017年
我的父母（弗兰克和埃斯特尔）于1956年11月24日结婚，相守一生。两人都在2025年5月31日去世。
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Conscious-Reserve-48729 赞2025/9/2
I love her dress! They look so happy❤️ Glad that they had a long life together. Losing them both on the same day must have been so hard; so sorry for your loss.
我超爱她的裙子！他们看起来好幸福❤️ 真高兴他们能携手相伴一生。在同一天失去两位至亲一定特别痛苦；真的很抱歉听到这个消息。
Ok_Fall_9569192 赞2025/9/2
Much appreciated.
万分感谢。
OriginalChildBomb98 赞2025/9/3
I'm very sorry for your double loss. Sounds like they had a beautiful and pleasant life together.
听到你们遭遇双重打击，我深感遗憾。听起来他们这一生过得很美满、很幸福。
MyTurkishWade27 赞2025/9/3
They are gorgeous. Any pictures from later?
他们长得真好看。还有后来拍的照片吗？
izolablue29 赞2025/9/3
What beautiful people! I’m sure they were inside and out! I’m so sorry for your loss.
多好的人啊！我相信他们绝对是表里如一的好人！听到这个消息我很遗憾。
278 赞2025/9/2
What a stunning photo. Sorry for your loss. What happened to them?
这张照片真是绝了。很遗憾听到这个消息。他们发生了什么事？
1,166 赞2025/9/2
Frank was 92, slipped and fell in the bathroom. Estelle was just shy of 90, tried to get to him to help, slipped and fell in the living room. They lived on their own and refused any sort of assisted living or care. I called in a welfare check and that’s all she wrote.
弗兰克当时92岁，在浴室里滑倒了。埃斯特尔也快90了，想过去帮他，结果在客厅里也滑倒了。他们一直自己住，拒绝任何形式的养老院或者看护。我给他们叫了次福利检查，然后一切就这么结束了。
542 赞2025/9/2
They probably would not have been able to live without each other.
他们大概确实没法离开彼此生活。
712 赞2025/9/2
That’s exactly right actually. We used to talk about that and each was terrified of living without the other. It actually worked out for the best.
说得太对了，其实还真是这样。我们以前聊过这个，他俩都怕极了要是没法跟对方在一起该怎么办。说实话，这结局反倒是最好的。
199 赞2025/9/2
May they rest in eternal peace.
愿他们安息，长眠于永恒的宁静之中。
136 赞2025/9/3
My grandma lasted six months to the day after grandpa died. My mom passed two years ago and one of the last things she said was, "I've dreamed of your father every night for 35 years. I can't wait to see him again." 35 years is a long time to go without your pinochle partner. I'm glad your parents had their long lives here together.
我爷爷去世后，奶奶刚好又撑了六个月。我妈两年前也走了，她临终前说的最后几句话之一就是：“这35年来，我每天晚上都梦到你爸。我等不及要再见到他了。” 35年，没有了牌搭子，这日子确实挺难熬的。
很高兴你的父母能在人世间相伴这么久。
44 赞2025/9/3
Thanks so much for sharing that!
非常感谢你的分享！
20 赞2025/9/3
Thank you for sharing your picture. I have always loved old wedding pictures and always blow them up on screen and look at their faces to see what the photographer captured. LOL...I also thought, "Oh my gosh, they must have had beautiful children." :0)
谢谢你分享这张照片。我一直都很喜欢老式婚纱照，总会把它们放大在屏幕上盯着看，去观察摄影师捕捉到了什么样的神情。哈哈……我当时心里还想：“天呐，他们的孩子一定长得超好看。” :0)
101 赞2025/9/3
Together in life and death, truly forever. I’m sorry for your loss but thank you for sharing this beautiful picture of them. You can see the love and joy on their faces ❤️
生死相依，真正的天长地久。很遗憾听到你失去亲人的消息，但也谢谢你分享了他们这张漂亮的照片。你能从他们的脸上看到那份爱与喜悦 ❤️
31 赞2025/9/3
That’s how my husband and I feel.
我和老公也是这种感觉。
15 赞2025/9/3
Beautiful couple! So very sorry for your loss…such a tragic way for them to both go. It would have been more painful to pass of broken heart (syndrome) had they not ultimately passed together. That’s a love story for the books for sure.
真是般配的一对！为你们失去亲人感到万分难过……他们以这种方式离世真是太令人心碎了。如果他们没能一起走，而是因心碎（综合征）而先后离世，那才真是痛上加痛。这绝对是一段可以载入史册的爱情故事。
16 赞2025/9/3
This is exactly what happens so often. I’ve been with my wife for nearly 17 years , we are mid 40’s but if she goes I won’t be long behind. I hope we go at exactly the same time or I go first. She is my best friend, apart of me, my person. I don’t want to do life without her.
这种事真的太常发生了。我和我老婆在一起快17年了，我们现在四十出头，但如果她走了，我也不会苟活太久。我希望我们能在那一刻同时离开，或者我先走。她是我的挚友，是我的一部分，是我生命中最重要的人。没有她，我真的没法想象以后的生活。
128 赞2025/9/2
Sounds so heartbreaking. They wanted to live together not only on earth, but also in heaven. RIP.
听起来太让人心碎了。他们不仅想在人间长相厮守，也要在天堂结伴同行。安息吧。
233 赞2025/9/2
Only so they could keep arguing!
居然只是为了能继续吵架！
168 赞2025/9/2
"Didn't I *just* tell you to be careful?? 🙄" –Frank and Estelle in unison upon reaching the other side. I'm so sorry for your loss, OP. May their memories be a blessing.
“我难道不是*刚才*才叮嘱过你要小心吗？？🙄” ——弗兰克和艾斯特尔过马路到对面时异口同声地说道。
对你失去亲人表示深切慰问，楼主。愿逝者安息，他们的记忆将成为一种福泽。
132 赞2025/9/3
Ha! That made me laugh because she ALWAYS said that!!!
哈！这段把我逗笑了，因为她总是把这句话挂在嘴边！！！
93 赞2025/9/2
They'd have been lost without having each other there to argue with 😂
要是没个能拌嘴的人在身边，他们俩估计早就没辙了😂
83 赞2025/9/2
100% accurate
简直太真实了，满分！
31 赞2025/9/3
Ha ha my grandparents were like this. My grandad died and my Nana wasted away with no one to grumble at (she loved him really 🥰)
哈哈，我爷爷奶奶也这样。后来爷爷去世了，奶奶整个人都蔫了，都没人给她抱怨唠叨了（其实她心里可爱他了🥰）
22 赞2025/9/3
Sounds a lot like these two!
听起来跟那俩货简直一模一样！
25 赞2025/9/2
That is how some people communicate unfortunately. Sounds like they were two peas in a pod. Can’t live with you. Can’t live without you.
很遗憾，有些人就是这么沟通的。听着就像是一丘之貉。离了你不行，留着你更糟。
15 赞2025/9/3
Exactly correct.
说得太对了。
50 赞2025/9/2
My parents had a fall together. It didn't kill them, but it was the beginning of the end. They just kept having incident after incident after that fall. Falls are so dangerous. My friends and family think I'm nuts, but I want to redo my bathroom in all handicapped accessible now, before we need it.
我爸妈当时一起摔了一跤。虽然没要了他们的命，但这却成了恶性循环的开始。从那次摔倒之后，他们就接二连三地出事。
摔跤这事儿太危险了。亲戚朋友都觉得我脑子有坑，但我现在就想把卫生间全改成无障碍设施，防患于未然，省得到时候手忙脚乱。
30 赞2025/9/3
Yeah. Estelle fell last Christmas Eve so we spent it in the emergency room. Just a fracture to her tailbone then but we all knew how this was going to go in the near future unfortunately.
确实。去年平安夜埃斯特尔（Estelle）摔了一跤，结果我们在急诊室过的节。当时只是尾椎骨骨裂，但我们心里都清楚，接下来等待她的是什么，真挺糟心的。
19 赞2025/9/3
Bless their hearts. She went after him trying to help him. Ride or die for her man until the end 🥲 Rip Estelle & Frank.
真是苦了他们了。她是想去扶他才摔的。对她老伴儿真是至死不渝、同生共死啊 🥲 愿埃斯特尔和弗兰克（Frank）安息。
17 赞2025/9/3
She never gave up on the ol’ bastard (as we lovingly called him)!
她从来没放弃过那个老混蛋（我们私下里都这么亲昵地称呼他）！
16 赞2025/9/3
I'm sorry for your loss of Frank and Estelle! In some bizarre way, if they have to go, this might be a better way for the end to come, since they have been together for so long. This was similar to my parents, not the same day, but six weeks apart. My mom passed on the early morning of March 24th, 2025, from a cardiac event. She was less than a month from turning 89. My dad was found unresponsive the early morning of May 6th, 2025, in a memory care unit that we had moved him to after mom passed. He was one day short of his 90th birthday. They were insistent on staying in their home of 62 years. As long as they could , and they did for the most part. Dad was a few years into the start of alzheimer's, so after mom's death, we had to get him someplace he could be taken care of as mom and a caretaker coming three times a week were his main help. My sisters, myself, and our spouses were also stopping over to help with getting groceries, doctor appointments, and any other needs they had. Dad was fairly good shape. he just didn't have a good short-term memory. He also kept forgetting that mom had died, so it was gut-wrenching when asked, "Where's mom?" and we had to remind him of what had happened. We took turns after mom died and stayed 24/7 with dad until we were able to get him into memory care. One positive thing was that his twin brother was at the same memory care place. We thought at least he would have someone that he knew there. My uncle was ecstatic to again be close to him. It is strange how fast things can change, even though you expect it to happen at some point. Now life is just a new normal, and I'm ok with that. It was going to happen sooner or later, and dad was lost and missed my mom. I apologize for how long this reply got. I hope that your new normal is getting better.
对你失去弗兰克（Frank）和埃斯特尔（Estelle）我深感遗憾！从某种离奇的角度来看，如果他们注定要走，这或许是个更好的结局，毕竟他们在一起度过了那么久。
这和我父母的情况很像，虽然不是同一天，但只隔了六周。我母亲在 2025 年 3 月 24 日清晨因心脏问题去世了。她离 89 岁生日还差不到一个月。我父亲是在 2025 年 5 月 6 日清晨，在我们把他转入的失智护理中心被发现没有了反应。那时离他 90 岁生日就差一天。
他们一直坚持要住在住了 62 年的老房子里。只要能住，他们就尽量住，而且大部分时间确实做到了。父亲那时已经患上阿尔茨海默症几年了，所以母亲去世后，我们不得不把他送到有人照顾的地方，因为母亲和一位每周来三次的护工一直是他主要的帮手。我和姐妹们，还有我们的配偶，也会过去帮忙买菜、陪同就医，以及满足他们的其他需求。父亲当时身体状况还可以，就是短期记忆不太好。他总记不住母亲已经去世了，所以当他问“妈妈去哪儿了？”我们不得不一次次提醒他发生了什么时，那种感觉真的太揪心了。母亲去世后，我们轮流 24 小时守着父亲，直到把他送进失智护理中心。唯一值得欣慰的是，他的孪生兄弟也在那家护理中心。我们当时想，至少他在那里还有个熟人。我叔叔见到能再次跟他在一起，特别高兴。
生活节奏变化之快真的很奇妙，即便你心里清楚早晚会有这么一天。现在生活进入了一个新的常态，我也能接受。这件事迟早会发生的，而且父亲当时确实迷失了方向，也真的很想念我母亲。
抱歉我回复得太长了。希望你的“新常态”能慢慢好起来。
123 赞2025/9/2
Almost 70 years together, what a long and lovely life they must have shared.
一起走过近 70 年，他们共享过多么漫长又美满的一生啊。
91 赞2025/9/2
It was long. Not always lovely!
时间太长了。而且并不总是那么美好！
88 赞2025/9/2
Was their last name Costanza?
Edit: there /their
他们是姓科斯坦扎（Costanza）吗？
编辑：更正了 there/their 的拼写错误。
54 赞2025/9/3
Ha! No, but the Costanzas were EXACTLY like these two!
哈哈！不是，但科斯坦扎一家跟这两个人简直一模一样！
16 赞2025/9/3
"That's amazing, that's like an ice cream man named Cone!"
这太神了，简直就像是一个叫“蛋筒”的冰淇淋小贩一样巧！
18 赞2025/9/3
Hard to believe this wasn't the top comment.
真不敢相信这居然不是热评。
22 赞2025/9/3
Every day we stray further from Festivus
我们离“节日庆典”（Festivus）的初衷是越来越远了。
58 赞2025/9/2
I had to go back and check if this was the same Estelle in the picture I saw a few days ago babysitting at 15 looking like an absolute baddie. And it is! What a Queen Estelle was! ❤️
我刚特地回头确认了一下，这真的是我几天前看到的那张照片里的 Estelle 吗？那会儿她才 15 岁在当保姆，看起来简直辣得不行。结果还真是她！
Estelle 简直绝了，太有女王范儿了！❤️
54 赞2025/9/2
One and the same! Her ashes are scattered at Devil’s Tower in Wyoming now.
如假包换！她的骨灰现在已经撒在怀俄明州的魔鬼塔了。
18 赞2025/9/2
Your mom reminds me of Laura Linney
你妈妈让我想起了劳拉·琳妮。
15 赞2025/9/2
They look gorgeous and so happy. I’m sorry for your loss.
他们看起来太好看了，而且真的很幸福。对于你的遭遇我深表遗憾。
15 赞2025/9/3
Same names as George Costanza’s parents
跟乔治·科斯坦扎（George Costanza）父母的名字一模一样。
13 赞2025/9/2
George?
10 赞2025/9/2
damn! no offense but you *must* be gorgeous based on this evidence!! and stylish if they taught you anything!
靠！冒犯了，但根据这照片来看，你本人绝对是个大美人！！如果他们教了你什么的话，那你肯定也很有品位！
9 赞2025/9/2
Beautiful. (Hug) Don’t forget to eat, eating is the easiest “chore” to give up on during grief.
太美了。（抱抱）别忘了吃饭，人在悲伤的时候，吃饭往往是“最容易被放弃”的琐事。
6 赞2025/9/3
A beautiful couple! I love tea length wedding dresses. I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost both of my parents recently too and know how it feels. (((Hugs)))
真是一对璧人！我超爱茶歇长度的婚纱。对你的遭遇深表遗憾。我也刚失去双亲，特别能体会那种感觉。(((抱抱)))
5 赞2025/9/2
Gorgeous photo, terribly sorry about your loss. I can’t imagine going through that. Also
照片美极了，听到这个消息非常难过。我简直无法想象要怎么熬过去。
另外
5 赞2025/9/2
Beautiful picture. I am so sorry for your loss.
照片真美。对你失去亲人深感遗憾。
4 赞2025/9/2
Same day? They are a gorgeous couple. The dress is amazing.
同一天吗？他们真是对登对的佳人。婚纱简直绝了。
4 赞2025/9/2
Great picture! My husband was born on 11/24/56!
好棒的照片！我老公也是1956年11月24日出生的！
4 赞2025/9/3
Must’ve been hard to lose both parents on the same day. I’m sorry that happened . Been married I’m guessing for 68/69 years. That would be incredible .
同一天失去双亲一定很难受吧。对此我深表遗憾。我猜他们结婚有68、69年了吧。那真的太不可思议了。
4 赞2025/9/3
I'm not sure why this question came to mind but I'm actually curious lol; did she always go by Estelle, or did she have any nicknames? Estelle is such a gorgeous name we really don't hear enough anymore, but also they look like he would have had a cute nickname for her lol
我也不知道自己为啥会突然想到这个问题，但我真的挺好奇的哈哈；她一直都叫 Estelle 吗，还是说她有什么昵称？Estelle 这个名字真的超好听，现在太少见了，而且看他俩的样子，感觉他肯定给她起过什么可爱的昵称哈哈。
3 赞2025/9/2
Stunning couple. Absolutely. So sorry for the loss of your parents.
超级登对的一对。绝对是。
真的很遗憾听到你父母去世的消息。
3 赞2025/9/2
My parents were married in 1956 too. I am always happy to see families like yours.
我爸妈也是 1956 年结的婚。看到像你们这样幸福的家庭，我总是很开心。
3 赞2025/9/3
Beautiful photos. I love her dress. I am sorry for your loss
照片真美。我很喜欢她穿的那件裙子。对于你的失去，我深表遗憾。
3 赞2025/9/3
Is she laughing at something he said? I bet he was entertaining!
她是在笑他说的话吗？我敢打赌他一定是个很有趣的人！
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3 赞2025/9/3
My goodness they are gorgeous and I hope you still have this dress 😍
天哪，它们简直太美了，希望你这件裙子还有货 😍
3 赞2025/9/3
I’m only 41 and have been with my man for 20 years. I really hope we can live and long life together and go together. Can’t imagine life without him, he makes me a better person. So sorry for your loss
我才41岁，和我家那口子在一起都20年了。我真的希望能和他长长久久，最后也能一起走。
简直无法想象没有他的日子，他让我成为了一个更好的人。
太遗憾听到你失去挚爱，节哀顺变。