我奶奶1968年的婚礼，英国阿布拉姆。她经营了一家残障人士之家
我奶奶1968年在英国阿布拉姆（Abram）的婚礼。她当时经营着一家残障人士收容所，并邀请了他们参加她的婚礼。
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QCr8onQ661 赞2025/3/17
I suspect your grandmother was great at her job. She is obviously a special person.
我敢说你奶奶生前工作肯定特别出色。她显然是个了不起的人。
MissMarina62483 赞2025/3/17
She was and this is why I posted it, to share that. She was such an angel, an incredibly special person, she died in June 2023 and I think I’ll never be over it. she’d give away half her salary if someone asked for it! everyone in the town knew her and knew she would help you if you needed it.
她确实是，这就是我发这篇帖子的原因，想跟大家分享一下。她简直就是个天使，一个极其特别的人，她在2023年6月去世了，我觉得我这辈子都走不出这个坎儿。只要有人开口求助，她能把半个月工资都给人家！镇上每个人都认识她，也都知道只要你有难处，她绝对会伸出援手。
QCr8onQ118 赞2025/3/17
Aren’t you lucky. I am sure she would be happy that is your memory of her.
你可真幸运。我相信如果她知道你一直这样记着她，一定会感到很欣慰的。
spinestuff83 赞2025/3/17
Thank you for sharing this photo and her story with us. I'm sorry for your loss.
感谢你与我们分享这张照片和她的故事。我很遗憾听到这个消息。
FutureAnxiety928764 赞2025/3/17
I'm sorry to hear that she passed. She's a real beauty in this photo as well as a very kind heart. Reminds me of Princess Diana in both ways.
听到她离世的消息我很难过。在这张照片里她不仅是个大美人，看起来也特别善良。无论是外貌还是气质，都让我想起了戴安娜王妃。
MissMarina6266 赞2025/3/18
She would be chuffed with that! She was a big royalist (a trait I didn't inherit), loved Diana, disliked Camilla.
她要是听了肯定会乐坏的！她是个不折不扣的保皇派（但我没遗传到这一点），特别喜欢戴安娜，非常讨厌卡米拉。
peppermintmeow17 赞2025/3/18
What a sweet woman! My first thought was she looks so much like Princess Di! She must have been a real lady just like the Princess.
多么温柔的女士啊！我第一眼看到她就觉得她长得好像戴安娜王妃！她一定像戴妃一样，是个真正的名媛淑女。
Dragonfly_pin28 赞2025/3/17
That’s really beautiful and so is this picture. What a wonderful human being.
这真的很美好，这张照片也一样。
真是个了不起的人。
262 赞2025/3/17
This would have been quite rare back then, people with learning disabilities were shunned, placed in homes, never to be seen. If you gave birth to a baby with disabilities (common back then; mothers smoking and baby having lack of oxygen during birth) your friends would stop talking to you, your neighbours would shun you. Your nan was an exception in making these people feel human again
在那个年代，这相当罕见。当时有学习障碍的人都会被排挤，被关进收容所，从此销声匿迹。如果你生下了一个有残疾的孩子（那会儿很普遍，因为母亲抽烟，或者婴儿出生时缺氧），你的朋友会不再理你，邻居会躲着你。你的奶奶是个例外，她让这些人重新感受到了身为人的尊严。
156 赞2025/3/17
Some of these comments, including this, have brought me to tears - it was such a special thing to do during that time period.
这些评论里的一些内容，包括这条在内，都看哭我了——在那个年代，这真的是一件特别了不起的事。
19 赞2025/3/18
Try to keep your Nana's memory alive by extending the same kindness to others. Every little bit counts.
试着把这种善意传递给别人，以此让你的奶奶活在人们的记忆里吧。积少成多，这点点滴滴都很重要。
61 赞2025/3/18
Definitely. I have a relative who had Down Syndrome who was born in the 60’s. The doctors straight up asked my grandma if she wanted to leave the baby to die when it was obvious she was disabled. My grandma said hell no to that and my relative far outlived the usual life expectancy for someone with that condition
绝对赞同。我有个亲戚是唐氏综合征患者，出生在60年代。当时医生直接问我奶奶，既然已经看出孩子有残疾，还要不要把孩子丢在那儿等死。我奶奶当时就回了一句“想都别想”，结果我这位亲戚的寿命远比这类病症的平均预期寿命长得多。
156 赞2025/3/17
What a lovely gesture for her patients/students. I bet that was a highlight of the year for many of them. Being invited, getting dressed up, receiving a flower for their lapels - what a lovely day for them to remember for their entire lives. What a special person.
对她的病人和学生来说，这真是个暖心的举动。我敢说，这绝对是他们很多人那一年里最棒的回忆了。
被邀请去参加活动，穿上正装，胸前再别上一朵花——这对他们来说，是值得铭记一辈子的一天。
她真是个特别的人。
105 赞2025/3/17
I agree- seeing them all in their Sunday best must have been such a pleasure for them and everyone who knew them. I can’t imagine the 60s was particularly easy for those with disabilities. I’m so proud my nanna was one of the people making life a bit better for them.
我同意，看他们都穿上最体面的行头，对他们自己以及所有认识他们的人来说，一定都特别开心。我无法想象在60年代，残障人士的生活有多不容易。我真的为我奶奶感到骄傲，她是那些努力让他们的生活变得更好的人之一。
51 赞2025/3/17
Oh man. I bet they loved that.
天呐。我敢肯定他们一定超喜欢那场活动。
50 赞2025/3/17
They loved it! My nanna was a very kind person. Always put others before herself.
他们超喜欢！我奶奶是个特别善良的人。总是先人后己，把别人放在第一位。
49 赞2025/3/17
How special 💕 Your grandma seems so kind and considerate, those people were her family as well 🥺
太特别了💕 你奶奶看起来真的又善良又体贴，那些人也都是她的家人呢🥺
40 赞2025/3/17
Yep she was so fabulous - the man in the background far left is my Grandpa Tommy (nanna’s dad) sneaking into the picture.
对啊，她真的超赞的——背景最左边那个偷偷入镜的男士是我爷爷汤米（奶奶的爸爸）。
47 赞2025/3/17
Your grandmother was an amazing lady with a beautiful soul. Sorry you lost her but glad you knew her.
你奶奶是一位了不起的女士，拥有一个美丽的灵魂。为你失去她感到难过，但为你曾拥有她而感到欣慰。
44 赞2025/3/17
Knew her for 28 amazing years ❤️
有幸相识并相处了28年，那段日子真的太棒了❤️
42 赞2025/3/17
I hope everybody enjoyed themselves.
希望大家当时都玩得开心。
30 赞2025/3/17
What a beautiful person she was. Everyone looks so grand in their suits, and happy faces! Your Gran is glowing! This is _such_ a special thing to have happened. You are truly blessed to have her as a part of you.
她真是个大美人。照片里每个人穿上西装都显得气宇轩昂，脸上洋溢着幸福！你奶奶在发光呀！这绝对是一件非常特别的事。能有她作为你生命的一部分，你真是太有福气了。
22 赞2025/3/17
Beautiful woman -- inside and out! I hope she had much happiness.
一位内外兼修的美人儿！希望她生前过得很幸福。
19 赞2025/3/18
Honestly gotta say more than two words cause this was in 1968 that something like this happened gave me butterflies. What a beautiful thing your nanna did. Beautiful soul. So glad someone like your nana lived on this planet.
说实话，我必须多写几个字，因为这种事发生在1968年，简直看得我心里小鹿乱撞。你奶奶做了一件多美的事啊。灵魂真美。真心庆幸像你奶奶这样的人曾在地球上走过一遭。
19 赞2025/3/17
A lovely wedding and she must have been a lovely person!
这场婚礼太棒了，她本人一定也是个特别美好的人！
11 赞2025/3/17
Wow! Such a nice lady. And her gorgeous thick hair.
哇！真是一位很好的女士。还有她那一头浓密漂亮的头发。
9 赞2025/3/18
What a wonderful photo and memory. Thank you for sharing!
多么美好的一张照片和回忆。谢谢你的分享！
9 赞2025/3/18
Abram as in Abram, Wigan?
你说的Abram是指威根（Wigan）的那个Abram吗？
8 赞2025/3/17
Remarkable woman!
了不起的女性！
7 赞2025/3/17
Bless her for making them feel seen in a time where most would sooner have them shut away. She’s such a gift for that gesture.
她真的太暖了，在那个大多数人都恨不得把他们藏起来不见人的年代，她竟然能让他们感觉到自己是被看见的。她那种举动简直就是上帝赐予的礼物。
7 赞2025/3/17
Great picture! You are privileged to have had such a lovely and loving grandmother.
照片棒极了！能拥有这样一位既可爱又充满爱心的祖母，你真是太有福气了。
6 赞2025/3/18
The way she's holding that lady's hand. Wonderful photo, thanks for sharing. My brother had special needs and I'm sure she got as much joy from them as they did from her. Lucky people to have each other.
她握着那位女士手的方式，真的太动人了。照片拍得真好，谢谢分享。
我弟弟也有特殊需求，我相信她从他们身上得到的快乐，绝不比他们从她那儿得到的少。能遇见彼此真是太幸运了。
6 赞2025/3/18
This picture really moves me in an intense way. what a shining example of love and community and inclusion!
这张照片真的深深触动了我。这就是爱、社区归属感和包容力的绝佳典范！
6 赞2025/3/17
What an amazing person. Thank you.
真是个了不起的人。谢谢你。
6 赞2025/3/18
This is the loveliest thing I've seen in some time. Your Nana was as beautiful inside as out for her kindness. I can tell by this photo that she loved the people she served.
这是我好长一段时间以来看过的最暖心的事了。你奶奶不仅外表美丽，内心也一样善良。从这张照片我就能看出来，她是真心爱着那些她服务过的人。
6 赞2025/3/18
the best post i've ever seen. what the world needs now more than ever. lovely.
见过最好的帖子，没有之一。这正是当今世界最需要的东西。太美好了。
6 赞2025/3/17
What a beautiful moment captured in time. The kindness and generosity your nanna showed speaks volumes about the kind of person she was!
这瞬间定格得真是太美了。你奶奶所展现出的那份善良与慷慨，足以说明她生前是位怎样好的人！
6 赞2025/3/17
This made my day.
这让我今天心情好极了。
5 赞2025/3/17
She sounds like a lovely person ❤️❤️
听起来她真的是个可爱的人❤️❤️